Read torrid texts female prison officer sent inmate who she allegedly had sex with behind husband's back: Vibrating underwear, office trysts and her lust for 'those big man hands'

By JOE HUTCHISON IN KENDALL PARK, NEW JERSEY Published: 16:20, 3 August 2026 | Updated: 16:20, 3 August 2026 A female prison officer accused of sexually abusing an inmate exchanged incredibly graphic text messages with the con detailing their affair, court papers have revealed. Jordan Pensak, 27, was charged this week with sexual abuse of a person in custody while working at the Federal Correctional Institution in Fort Dix, New Jersey, which is home to disgraced rap mogul Sean 'Diddy' Combs.  In a criminal complaint obtained by the Daily Mail, authorities detailed a string of graphic messages that Pensak is accused of sending the inmate, named as 'victim 1,' another inmate named only as an 'individual' and an unidentified family member. 'I'm getting you vibrating panties,' victim 1 allegedly wrote to Pensak in one exchange dated August of last year, according to charging documents.  The two then had an explicit back and forth after Pensak questioned why she would need them, before she excitedly spoke to her lover about 'those big man hands,' the criminal complaint said.  In January, Pensak, who is white and who was dating a Korean-American man, texted a former inmate, named in court papers as 'the individual,' about her alleged lover, who was black, over her fears she may have been pregnant with his child, the court papers said.  She wrote: 'I'm 3 days late for my period you ready to be an uncle? That ain't good for this investigation. If the baby black and my husband white and Korean?!'  Authorities detailed a string of graphic messages that Pensak, seen here in her 2016 yearbook picture, is accused of sending the inmate and others At this stage, the Federal Bureau of Prisons was investigating Pensak over the alleged relationship. She said in one text that another inmate 'snitched' on the pair, according to the court papers. 'They can't prove nothing, if I quit I think they stop pursuing it,' Pensak is said to have messaged an inmate.  The complaint also claimed that Pensak and the inmate had sex several times inside an office while the inmate paid other cons to act as lookouts. She referenced these in the text messages to 'the individual,' who is believed to be an ex-convict, saying: 'The lookout knocked on the door and opened it without us saying s***.' Astonishingly, the text suggests that Pensak heaped praise on two other prisoners for acting as reliable 'lookouts' during her assignations with the inmate. Pensak texted the same person saying: 'We ain't had good look outs since you and strong.'  She allegedly complained that one of her recent lookouts had almost exposed one of her sexual encounters with the inmate and that her lover's privates had almost been 'seen swanginnn.' [sic] Other messages detailed what the pair would allegedly do, some of which prosecutors kept from the complaint after they said the inmate refused to do them.  Pensak, pictured on the right, faces a maximum of 15 years in prison if convicted The alleged relationship is said to have happened inside the Federal Correctional Institution in Fort Dix, New Jersey, according to the complaint Your browser does not support iframes. 'We freak nasty [I] keep telling you this. No one sucking on my toes but bro. We got a lot done in that office when you was guard,' she is accused of saying in the complaint. Other messages inside the criminal complaint detailed what the two would do inside the facility but are far too graphic to reproduce. Pensak also admitted to the relationship, texting someone in January of this year that the two had been together 'for the past year,' according to the complaint.  When told by another individual the following month that she could serve time for her actions, she responded: 'Yes I know,' the court filing alleges.  The complaint also accused her of speaking with the inmate's family, with one relative expressing concern that Pensak was potentially pregnant.  'I have to take a pregnancy test. I'm a week late,' before adding she was not 'mentally ready for a baby. Not without him being here.' The family member asked her if the inmate knew, to which Pensak told them he was still in a segregated part of the prison.  She is also accused of telling the family member at a later date: 'I kind of wish I was pregnant just to know its possible,' the complaint alleges. Pensak said she was going to be 'more successful' than all her other classmates in a yearbook uncovered by the Daily Mail  'I know I couldn't keep it. And to go through all that without would be hard on me.' It is unclear if Pensak has any children.   The family member asked what would happen if the two were caught, to which Pensak replied: 'We HAVE been caught' adding that she lied to a lieutenant, the complaint alleges. Besides the texts, a summons filed against Pensak said the two exchanged over 100 sexually explicit messages, photos and videos.  A search warrant was executed in May of this year on an Instagram account linked to Pensak which uncovered the messages.  She appeared in federal district court in Camden on Tuesday and was released on bail, the US Attorney's Office for New Jersey said.  The Daily Mail attempted to speak with Pensak at her trailer park home in the state on Thursday but she was not at home.  A neighbor said they were shocked to hear about the accusations, adding that Pensak had shared a different version of events with them. They would not elaborate.  The Daily Mail also uncovered her past yearbook when she graduated from Monroe High School back in 2016.  In one section which asked departing students where they saw themself in 20 years, she responded: 'I'll be more successful than you'll ever be.' A phone call and text message to her cell number went unanswered, her attorney also did not respond to a request for comment.   Pensak is due back in court at a later date and faces a maximum of 15 years in prison if convicted, the US Attorney's Office for the District of New Jersey said. 'The charges and allegations contained in the complaint are merely accusations, and the defendant is presumed innocent unless and until proven guilty,' it added.