Kristi Noem's cross-dressing husband Bryon STILL messaged bimbo dominatrix after Daily Mail's exposé on his sordid secret

By RACHEL BOWMAN, US SENIOR NEWS REPORTER Published: 13:33, 23 June 2026 | Updated: 13:59, 23 June 2026 Kristi Noem's cross-dressing husband, Bryon, continued to message a dominatrix after his fetish was revealed by the Daily Mail, the sex worker has claimed. Shy Sotomayor, a dominatrix who allegedly had a nine-year relationship with Bryon Noem, claimed he reached out to her last month during a recent appearance on the podcast, UNCLOSETED with Spencer Macnaughton. The revelation came months after the Daily Mail exposed his double life as a secret cross-dresser who dons gigantic fake breasts and pink hotpants to chat with online fetish models on March 31. 'How recently has DM'd you and what is he saying to you?' Macnaughton asked the 5ft sex worker with extra-large 2500cc breast implants. 'May 17th, he texted me on iMessage. He's like, "I've been a really bad boy." I'm like, "Oh, I know. I know you've been a bad boy,"' Sotomayor replied. 'I feel like this is truly a sick man. I feel like he has a sex addiction and that is not something I would want to take advantage of.' She added, 'I sent him a very long message saying, you know, Bryon, I thought really hard on this. You obviously are very sick. You need help. If it's not clear by now or after being America's joke, I truly don't know what is.' 'But I've came forward with my story about you. This is just kind of me saying goodbye. If you find another girl who does want to talk to you during this, I'm like, shame on both of you. You need to get better.' The Daily Mail revealed Kristi Noem's husband, Bryon, is a secret cross-dresser who dons gigantic fake breasts and pink hotpants to chat with online fetish models on March 31 Shy Sotomayor, a dominatrix who allegedly had a nine-year relationship with Bryon Noem, claimed he reached out to her on May 17, months after the Daily Mail exposed his double life The dominatrix said Bryon did not reply to her message, so she sent him an invoice for $4,500 his outstanding balance for her services, which she says he has not paid. Kristi was fired as Homeland Security Secretary in early March, shortly before the Daily Mail published photos of her crossdressing husband.  The scandal sparked national security concerns because her husband's activity opened her up to blackmail as head of Homeland Security.  The comments below have not been moderated. The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. By posting your comment you agree to our house rules. Do you want to automatically post your MailOnline comments to your Facebook Timeline? Your comment will be posted to MailOnline as usual. Do you want to automatically post your MailOnline comments to your Facebook Timeline? Your comment will be posted to MailOnline as usual We will automatically post your comment and a link to the news story to your Facebook timeline at the same time it is posted on MailOnline. To do this we will link your MailOnline account with your Facebook account. We’ll ask you to confirm this for your first post to Facebook. You can choose on each post whether you would like it to be posted to Facebook. Your details from Facebook will be used to provide you with tailored content, marketing and ads in line with our Privacy Policy.