'How do you live with that?' Disgraced Eric Swalwell's 'blindsided' wife dresses for revenge... as friends reveal brutal toll sex assault scandal has had on young mom

Eric Swalwell's wife was seen stepping out once again without her wedding ring as new details emerge about the implosion of their marriage - while the disgraced congressman remains out of sight.  Exclusive Daily Mail photos show Brittany Watts, 41, grabbing coffee near the couple's Washington DC home on Thursday morning, with her left hand noticeably bare as questions swirl about the state of couple's nine-year marriage. The mom-of-three appeared keen to keep a low profile in a green hoodie, jeans, camo baseball cap, and sunglasses during her solo coffee run to Union Kitchen.  The new sighting comes amid reports Watts was left 'blindsided' by the wave of sexual assault allegations that have engulfed her husband, who, up until last month, had publicly presented himself as a devoted family man and rising Democratic star.  Sources also told the Daily Mail that the scandal has taken a toll on Watts, who has been struggling to shield the pair's young children, Eric 'Nelson', nine, Kathryn 'Cricket', seven, and Hank, four.  'Eric has been accused of horrible things. How do you live with that?' a friend of the family said Friday.  'You can see in Brittany's face what an emotional and physical toll this has taken on her. For heaven's sake, she has three young children.  'How does she explain this mess to them?' Brittany Swalwell was seen trying to keep a low-profile on Thursday while given a clear view of her ringless finger The wife of disgraced former congressman Eric Swalwell was spotted wearing sunglasses, a camouflage baseball cap and a green hoodie during her coffee run to Union Kitchen Swalwell, who resigned last month, meanwhile has not been seen publicly since the scandal erupted and the pair are reported to be living separately  Another insider previously claimed Watts had 'no knowledge of what was happening' and felt as though Swalwell had been 'strategic at living a double life' and 'had everyone fooled', according to People magazine.  Earlier this week, Watts - who married the embattled Democrat in October 2016 - was first seen ditching her ring as she emerged from the couple's DC home.  She was not eager to discuss the state of her marriage when the Daily Mail asked her about the missing band. 'I have no comment,' she said at the door of the couple's two-story home in northeast Washington DC. But Watts gave the ultimate insult to her San Francisco Giants-supporting husband when she stepped out wearing a bright pink New York Yankees cap. The camo cap she opted for on Thursday was also in support of the NYC team. Swalwell has previously said that his deepest lifelong allegiance is with the Giants, and that he was 'practically raised' by the team's long-time first baseman Will Clark. Swalwell was engulfed in controversy last month when at least four women accused him of rape and sexual misconduct, which he denies. Two of the women said he had sent them unsolicited pictures of his penis, which he has also denied. The sighting came days amid reports the mom-of-three was left 'blindsided' by the allegations against her husband Watts is seen wearing her wedding band in an undated photo from social media Two days after the initial allegations he dropped out of the race for California governor and the following day resigned from Congress before an attempt to expel him had time to be launched. Two days after that Watts and the couple's three children were spotted in Cabo, soaking up the sun, but Swalwell was nowhere to be seen in the Mexican resort town.   And the normally ubiquitous presence on cable TV has not been spotted in public since. Watts left the couple's house Tuesday morning to help the couple's nanny with their three children. Her husband was not seen. Swalwell, 46, met Watts when they were introduced by mutual friends in 2015.  He has regularly expressed his love for her online.  One February 14 Instagram message he posted said simply 'Lucky to call her my Valentine. Today and every day.' The Democratic congressman dropped out of the race last month after 50 former members of his staff joined a growing chorus of politicians calling for him to resign from his position and suspend his gubernatorial campaign.  Earlier this week, Watts was seen solo at couple's DC home, first seen in this Daily Mail exclusive Swalwell resigned from Congress and ended his gubernatorial campaign after accusations of sexual assault, Lonna Drewes, pictured above, accused him of rape at a press conference; he had denied the allegations 'I am suspending my campaign for Governor,' Swalwell said in a statement on X.  'To my family, staff, friends, and supporters, I am deeply sorry for mistakes in judgment I've made in my past.'  He continued: 'I will fight the serious, false allegations that have been made – but that's my fight, not a campaign's.'  The bombshell move came after a woman who worked for two years for Swalwell claimed she had sexual encounters with him while he was her boss. The former staffer claimed he raped her twice while she was intoxicated in 2019 and 2024.  Another woman, Lonna Drewes, alleged the California lawmaker drugged and raped her in 2018. President Trump weighed in for the first time on the allegations in an exclusive interview with the Daily Mail. 'He's a sleazebag,' Trump said. 'Always has been. He's a long timer, and he's a bad guy. I don't know anything about the charges, but he's a bad guy.'  The Democratic congressman, 46, met Watts when they were introduced by mutual friends in 2015. She is seen here with her husband wearing her wedding band Last November Watts straightened her husband's jacket prior to an appearance on Jimmy Kimmel Live when he announced his run for California Governor. Watts was still wearing her wedding band Swalwell had been one of Trump's most vocal critics in Congress, accusing the President of colluding with Russia during the 2016 election.  He also served as an impeachment manager during Trump's second trial in 2021. 'He's always been a bad guy, he's a corrupt politician, and everyone knows it, so it's happening to him, and we'll see what happens. Right? Let him go defend himself,' Trump added. Two criminal investigations into the assault claims against Swalwell have been started by the Manhattan District Attorney's Office and the Los Angeles County Sheriff's Department. Swalwell has denied any wrongdoing in connection with the rape and sexual assault allegations.  But the former lawmaker at the same time acknowledged making 'mistakes in judgment' and apologized to his wife. The accusations against Swalwell destroyed his political career and prompted calls for further investigations from both parties. Prior to the scandal, Swalwell's attorneys sent a cease-and-desist letter to FBI Director Kash Patel, seeking to block the release of the agency's investigative files into the lawmaker's past relationship with an alleged Chinese spy. Swalwell had represented the San Francisco Bay Area in Congress since 2012 and has been one of former President Donald Trump's most outspoken critics Christine Fang, a Chinese national, was suspected of engaging in intelligence on behalf of the Chinese government by cultivating relationships with politicians, including Swalwell. In 2015, she reportedly helped Swalwell with fundraising and finding an intern for his office. He cut all ties to her in 2015 after an FBI investigation. Swalwell has not been accused by law enforcement of any wrongdoing regarding this matter. After the scandal broke, Swalwell was removed by then-Speaker Kevin McCarthy from the House Intelligence Committee in 2023. No comments have so far been submitted. 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