Dad, 31, ran over and killed woman, 74, who tossed water at his Mercedes while it blocked sidewalk - now his wife insists he's NOT a murderer

By WILKO MARTÍNEZ-CACHERO, US REPORTER Published: 15:06, 24 April 2026 | Updated: 15:16, 24 April 2026 The wife of a San Francisco man who allegedly killed an elderly woman in a hit-and-run after she tossed water at his expensive car insisted that her husband was not a murderer. Valentino Cash Amil, 31, was charged with murder by the San Francisco District Attorney's Office after he allegedly ran over Dannielle Spillman, 74, on April 13. Amil's wife, who remained unnamed because of alleged harassment over the death, said her husband was 'not a villain.' 'It's not fair that the villain that they're painting of my husband,' she told KTVU. The woman added that Amil's charges were 'outrageous and it's not fair.' Authorities said that Spillman had seemingly taken exception to Amil blocking the sidewalk with his black 2024 Mercedes-Benz E350 sedan near the Chevron Gas Station at 1601 Mission Street in the city's South of Market neighborhood. After exchanging words, Spillman spilled water from a bottle onto his car. Amil 'immediately accelerated' and drove into her for several feet, which was captured on surveillance video. He then allegedly drove off, running over Spillman after she had fallen off the hood. She was declared dead less than 10 minutes later. Dannielle Spillman, 74, was allegedly murdered by Valentino Cash Amil, 30, on April 13 in a hit-and-run after she spilled water from a bottle onto his black 2024 Mercedes Benz E350 Amil was charged with murder and one count of fleeing the scene of an accident. He has been detained without bail The alleged hit-and-run was captured on surveillance video Amil was charged last Thursday with murder, as well as one count of fleeing the scene of an accident. He was detained without bail, with the San Francisco District Attorney adding that he posed a public safety risk. Amil's wife told the outlet that she was not 'handling this well' and was not sleeping or eating. 'I wake up crying, and I go to sleep crying,' she added. 'Obviously, I'm being strong for my children, in front of my children but inside my heart, my heart is truly broken.' She and her two children - a five-month-old boy and an 11-year-old girl - were also in the car at the time of the alleged hit-and-run. Friends of Spillman recalled her as a music lover who enjoyed playing her guitar. 'It's just a huge loss for everybody,' Matt Stevens said. He added: 'From the second I met her it was just like a big warm open invitation of like friendship and love.' Friends of Spillman said she loved to play her guitar and regularly visited guitar shops around the San Francisco area San Francisco District Attorney Brooke Jenkins said that Spillman had not posed a threat to Amil before her allegedly ran her over with his Mercedes Spillman was a transgender woman who lived in San Francisco for more than 20 years, according to KTVU. Connor McKeon, who worked at the Guitar Center music store that she regularly visited, honored her as 'one of the nicest, most personable people.' 'She was someone that would come in to hang out,' McKeon told Mission Local. 'She knew everyone's name and she knew all of our backstories.' Amil was arrested by the San Francisco Police Department after the alleged hit-and-run without incident, according to the District Attorney's Office. 'It was a life,' his wife said. 'We understand that in its entirety.' The car trip had initially started as a visit to Disneyland, she added. Brooke Jenkins, the San Francisco District Attorney, said that Spillman did not pose a threat to Amil. 'As the victim proceeds around the front of the vehicle, the defendant accelerates, hitting the victim, who ends up on the hood of the vehicle before falling off into the roadway as that vehicle proceeds and then is run over,' Jenkins said, per CBS News. Amil has claimed that he was acting in self-defense and that he saw Spillman as a threat 'who was trying to reach into the car' and hurt his family. Amil will return to court today and attempt to obtain bail. The Daily Mail has reached out to the San Francisco District Attorney's Office and Amil's attorney, Seth Morris, for further comment. The comments below have not been moderated. The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. By posting your comment you agree to our house rules. Do you want to automatically post your MailOnline comments to your Facebook Timeline? Your comment will be posted to MailOnline as usual. Do you want to automatically post your MailOnline comments to your Facebook Timeline? Your comment will be posted to MailOnline as usual We will automatically post your comment and a link to the news story to your Facebook timeline at the same time it is posted on MailOnline. 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